South side native, graphic designer, Prince fan, Shiba Inu papa.
Joel
I’m highly introverted and have lived alone for a while now, long enough that I’ve learned to appreciate and prefer my own company in many cases and like to get out and do things on my own. With that said, I don’t feel that the social ramifications of the pandemic have had as much of an impact on me as some of my more extroverted friends as I quite enjoy solitude. I think what I miss the most is going to shows and especially going to the movies, the movie theater is like church to me and I would usually go weekly. I also do miss people watching as that’s a thing I like to do. I still get to stay home and work, dust off and listen to my records, play my video games (Animal Crossing, lots and LOTS of Animal Crossing), hangout with my pooch, and have movie nights alone or with friends via facetime. For me, the most important thing is keeping a routine. Waking up early and getting dressed for work regardless of the fact that I am working from home, getting enough exercise, eating well, and trying to maintain how I present myself even though nobody is really seeing much of me these days. I like to look good and will continue to prioritize that during this crap. Getting outside is also important to me, walking down to my little isolated ‘happy place’ by the river, which is something I’ve been doing for years.
I do appreciate the fact that this has forced people to think creatively about social interactions and in the process, we may have discovered some valuable tools to take with us beyond these circumstances, it’s been great seeing the faces of people I care about on my screens in real-time. I also find myself coming out of my shell a bit so that I can be there for friends and loved ones who may be having a harder time with this than I am.
Joel is one of those great friends finds that came from being in a band. Joel has a creative soul. I have always appreciated his taste in design, and I have relied on him anytime someone needed a graphic designer.
What I appreciate is Joel’s vulnerability and self-understanding during the lockdown. He is taking this time to get a better sense of self. These times can be difficult even for people who are introverted. But, even introverts need some sort of connection.
It is seeing friends like Joel that really make me appreciate this photo project. It allows me to take a moment to see someone I may have not had a chance to see in a long time. Even if it is just for a few minutes, the impact is powerful.
